When you are with a person for a very long time, it’s not easy to give it up  especially if you have invested a lot. For me, the most risky kind of investment is emotional investment. It’s very difficult to recover  and it can leave you wounded for the rest of your life. But I am glad it was finally over. Actually, it had been over  long before it finally ended.

It took a lot of courage to end a relationship that had been a part of my existence for 7 years. I am not a hypocrite if I would say it was not painful, but I saw it coming. When it finally ended, I felt relieved. I felt alive once again. After that relationship, I am loving myself more.