Aries on Break Ups

Posted by pink on February 9, 2009

When relationships and zodiac signs are being discussed, the topic is, more often than not, about compatibility. But in reality, break ups happen too. I found an interesting material about zodiac signs and break ups. Since it is said that people born on different zodiac also have varying personalities, we can say that they may also have different approaches when it comes to break ups. 

Do you want to win back an Aries ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend? Here’s something, you may want to read:

The Aries as your ex: When an Aries decides they are through with a relationship, moving mountains won’t win this person back. They are adamantly and stubbornly committed to standing behind their decision. They can approach the subject of breaking up with an attitude that is cold, uncomfortably blunt, and to the point. They may come off as arrogant, egotistic, and domineering. The Aries as a dumper doesn’t mince their words. It is next to impossible to win the Aries back! They will not concede and will stay in the game longer than anyone else. Trying to convince, coerce, beg, rationalize, plead, or manipulate the Aries is a waste of time. Usually the Aries has mentally abandoned the relationship long before their mate learns of it. No sense arguing with them, for the Aries will always have the last word! Their callous, “me-first” attitude can cut you to the bone. Once an Aries has made the determination to end the relationship, then to them it is over. No if’s, and’s, or but’s. When an Aries gets determined to do something, watch out! — Nothing will stand in their way!

Aries tend to fall in love hard and fast, and fall out of love just as hard and fast! Their turn-offs are those who tend to dwell on self-pitying habits. Don’t complain about your health to this one — they won’t appreciate your aches and pains! Along those lines, keep conversation to a light minimum. Aries do not appreciate long, in-depth discussions, or philosophical rantings!

Play hard to get, as Aries people appreciate the chase almost as much (if not more) than the conquest. Be a team player.

The Aries as yourself: If the dumped Aries is determined to get their mate back they will stop at nothing in order to achieve their goal. They are headstrong , bold, aggressive, courageous, and assertive. They thrive in the challenge and sometimes enjoy more the actual fight itself than winning what they are fighting for. The Aries is well prepared to do the battle to win back the object of their affection, and will not relax until they have won the battle. Which they usually do…but at what cost? On the other hand, if the Aries has decided that it is for the best that the relationship does end they will jump into their new life with vim and vigor, eager to experience the c>hange. Aries are not only unafraid of stepping onto new terrain, the challenge of taking on the unknown is heaven on Earth for them. Most likely you will not see the recently-dumped Aries moping around at home on a Saturday night, but out avidly roping the stars eagerly looking for new heavens. They approach the unknown with initiative, courage, and determination. An Aries is fearless and spirited.

(source: aboutyourbreakup.com)